Why we should have kidS

Yes, I survived the weekend. I am actually quite glad that it is over. Lil Shauna drained me, especially when she's into the only-mummy-can mode, which can happen very frequently. Basically, mummy must do everything when that happens, from carrying her to feeding her to washing her backside to taking the empty milk bottle from her hands. Otherwise, she will whine non-stop until mummy does what she wants. It is very bad.

Still, children are blessings. Hehe. I am not sure why am I making 2 posts on similar topics. Maybe becoming 2nd time mummy brings out all the motherly instinct again. ;p Back to the topic, I think we should have kids, not just one but 2 or more if we can afford, not only $$ but time. So why so I think so?

1. Humans are to made to do so. And that is how you & me come about.
2. Children completes the family. Remember we used to draw father, mother and 2 kids when we were young? Anyway, Daddy Lim always tease me on that bcos I said that before we had Lil Shauna.
3. Children brings the parents closer to the grandparents. I cannot agree more. We spent so much more time with Popo and Nainai now as compared to when Lil Shauna wasnt around.
4. Children brings companionship. Although not all children grow up filal, me and siblings did and I supposed my kids will too. When Daddy Lim or me passes on, the children will continue to bring companionship, just like us to my mum or to nainai now.
5. Children makes us more sensible children. Although we have always understand how our parents meant well for us, we didnt really know, until we become parents ourselves.
6. If there are more than one, they have each other when it comes to hard decision. Daddy Lim and myself both went through and experience that when our dads were very sick.
7. Children brings joy, little and big ones, every day.
8. Children make us feel needed and make us into responsibile adults.
9. Finally, children are God's blessings. :)

See, tons of reasons to have kids! I hope I will enjoy being 2nd time mummy despite having to chase after not one but two kids. Hohohoho. God will bless me with lots of love and most importantly, patience and self-control. ;p

Mummy Lim