Monday, March 30, 2026
Snowboarding Beginner II
Yochi Starting Week 6
Yochi has been with us for 5 weeks. He is still very hungry, very loud, very noisy and bullying Mochi. I do think that he bullies Mochi less now. He growls and hisses less and the number of times that he chased after Mochi in a day also reduces. Yochi doesn’t jump as high as Mochi, so when. Yochi is in his fight mode, Mochi takes refuge on his hammock or on the fridge. Otherwise, underneath the sofa, where it can only fit 1 cat.
Each time we see the 2 cats in the same vicinity, we do a little yippy dance in celebration.
Saturday, March 28, 2026
Meeting the Uni Mates and D&D at Molly Malones
Other than the SHSS aunties, I don’t have many close friends. Relationships take a lot to maintain and I don’t have so much to give to these other relationships. I am already very blessed to have this group of friends who literally grew up with me. What’s more, the friendship is now extended to our kids. God is Good!
Anyhow, I did meet up with my Keppel ex-colleagues 2 weeks ago and was motivated to arrange a meet-up with my Uni mates. We met during an uni hall orientation camp, and went on to plan an orientation camp the following year. They were then my lunch kakis and we also met during lectures and tutorials, taking similar majors and modules in the arts faculty.
Our last meet up was months ago. We have a bigger turn up this time.
The conversations circle around “what are you doing now?”, “your kids are so old already?” and “how bad is your presbiopia?”. Lol.
Among us, there is a teacher and it was school week. She was the 1st to trigger going home bcos she has an early morning and long day tomorrow. Most of them drive and now that I don’t live in ulu Jurong West, I got a free ride home. Woohoo. I was home in about 15 mins. Very nice.
On Friday evening, Daddy Lim bought us tickets to a Dungeon and Dragon event held at Molly Malones, a pub in Boat Quay. Zaky has been very much into D&D and Nana sometimes play along. I got to know that Daddy Lim once played D&D in his younger years. I was a total newbie. We got to join a den of 6 with another couple.
This was my very 1st experience with D&D and I was very lost. We got to select a character from a pre determined list and I was an elf fighter so that I can whack people. I was told that D&D is a role playing game. Our setting was a tavern. Ok, let’s drink some beer. The event encouraged the participants to buy real drinks and food at the bar, adding perks from these real $$ spent.
The event was from 7pm to 11pm. About an hour into the event, I was already bored. Lol. But bcos we had other people in the “den”, we cannot just leave the game like that. Nana was also bored and wanted to go home at 9ish and was shocked when I told her that we can’t just leave. She has a whole day school event on Saturday and was telling me how tired she was and how tired she would be tomorrow. Eeerrrr… ok…
The set up was done in such a way that there were different tables (dens) and what we do at the table could affect others (vice versa). The experienced players were clustered in one of the big tables. There were a few breaks in between and at 10pm, we had the choice to either continue at our table, or moved to the experienced table where they would be fighting dragons and the big boss. We took the opportunity to leave. The other 2 players at our table, who were much more experienced, went on to join the dragons fighting.
Zaky said that it was a very fun experience with all the props but he would enjoyed playing with his friends more. Nana and I were more lost than anything. Haha. Well, at least a Friday evening of doing things together as a family, though a tad expensive.
Zaky benefited from the fanciful dices that we could bring home after the event.
Mummy Lim
Monday, March 23, 2026
Adventure on Wheels and Fake Snow
Thursday, March 19, 2026
Week 3 with Yochi
This is actually the start of week 4. Both cats are still alive.
I was almost giving up last week bcos Yochi was so aggressive towards Mochi after his vaccination. I had hope that his aggressiveness would simmer off. He did, but Yochi still doesn’t love Mochi.
Yochi still sleeps in the service yard most nights but managed to jail break on 2 mornings, when we didn’t close the service yard door properly. I was shocked on those 2 mornings to hear Yochi meowed so loudly outside our door for bfast. Otherwise, Nana adopts him on some nights.
While the attacks are less frequent as compared to the day after his vaccination, it is still a few times a day. Mochi has learnt to “fight back” by trying to gently paw (or pretend to try to paw) and hissed (once) at Yochi but he is definitely no match. Mochi just usually runs away and Yochi will give chase. We lost count of the times that we had to stop/ block Yochi from chasing and attacking Mochi. Mochi didn’t seem to be hurt but he always looks so pathetic. Our heart aches for our resident cat. I lost count of the times that Yochi force Mochi to a corner and Mochi was just sitting that helplessly while waiting for us to save him.
Yochi is so affectionate with humans. Nana says that Moxhi will sleep at her feet but Yochi will sleep everywhere on her bed and on her. He just simply doesn’t like Mochi.
We let Yochi out of the service yard when we are home but I would usually either stay in the same place as them so that I can keep an eye on them or keep one of them in the room to save the trouble.
I was working from home on Monday and both cats were roaming in the house. They don’t fight when it is meal time or for most part of the day bcos they are both sleeping somewhere. The fighting problem usually happen in the morning and evening after meals. Oh ya, Yochi eats so much more than Mochi but is still so lean. Anyhow, he is always meowing for food.
Mochi seems to have accepted the fact that Yochi is the alpha male and many times tiptoe past him. That is so sad! He doesn’t provoke Yochi as much now (I think) but Yochi still 看它不顺眼 from time to time and will decide to attack Mochi for no reason.
There had been occasions that I came home to both cats roaming in the house. Apparently somebody had decided that they have turned good friends and no longer fight. Or they simply forget. On those occasions, they are left alone for a few hours. I duno if Mochi was bullied then or maybe Yochi will only turn aggressive on Mochi when there are humans around.
I duno how long we still can cage Yochi. He is always so vocal when we lock him that we were afraid that we would disturb the neighbours. Haiz, when does it take for them to live in harmony?























































