Saturday, September 30, 2023

Paika Yet Again Ep 2

The last round Nana was paika-ed, we rented a wheelchair and paid quite some $$ bcos we rented it for a long time. The rental $$ would have gotten us a new wheelchair but we didn't want to end up with a wheelchair that we didn't need after a few months. The crutches were loaned to us for free, from the Chinese sunseh who 1st saw her. 

This time, we had to buy new crutches so that she could get out of the hospital in Bali. We started off with a rented wheelchair; the only one available in the shop. It was missing a holder causing one of the foot pads to drop at times and it was wobbly. 

Enough! We got her a new, low end wheelchair, figuring out that it would offset rental cost. 

This could go to charity when we conform (plus chop) that we no longer need it. 

We have submitted the medical bills to the travel insurance. Approved! The medical bills in Bali and Singapore amounted to over S$900. I am so glad that my subconscious mind made me persisted with the purchase when we already landed in Bali. 

Nana had her follow-up on Thursday. We went back to Dr Lam's clinic. There were many other toddlers. See this toy. So cute!
Dr Lam said that her x-ray indicated that she is recovering well. I asked for a comparison of the latest x-ray vs the one from her last NUH appointment in July. To our surprise, Dr Lam said that her current condition is better than in July. What?! 

Not only is the fracture line better, the bone is generally less porous, a result of exercise/ movement. It is amazing how the last month of exercise helped. 

Nana had been very obedient. The doctor had asked that she not put any weight on the ankle and for the past 3 weeks, she didn't at all. Even the doctor was surprised. She is kiasi. Lol. 

Dr Lam said that she can actually start stepping on her broken ankle, but to start slowly 1st. She is to start with her crutches and aim to do so without her crutches by the end of the week. Yay! It would take some time before she can go for longer walk. 

However, bcos it is a refracture, it would take double the time for recovery. This means that she would have to stay away from sports for probably 4 to 6 months. 

Her next appointment is in 1 month's time. Speedy recovery! 

Mummy Lim

Thursday, September 28, 2023

Short Trip to Jakarta

This wasn't exactly a planned trip. The project has completed and there was a launch ceremony. I was invited at the very last minute. 

Bcos I needed to be at the site on early Monday morning, I flew Scoot on Sunday evening. Just when I thought I ran out of stuff to buy, I got myself an eyeliner. Hoho. 

Bcos there wasn't too much shopping to do, I had time for a drink. 
Daddy Lim and the kids had it better - Genki sushi, followed by desserts. 


It was already 10pm by the time I reached the hotel. At least I had a big bed to myself and aircon whole night. Hoho. The hotel's complimentary. 
I only managed to eat some of the cookies and was too full from too much eating for the rest of the trip. 

Early morning or not, let's continue with the gym. 


OOTD - bcos it was at the site. 
It was a well-run event. I was impressed and had a good time. 

The day closed with a company dinner at Westin Jakarta, 52nd floor. 


I slept with a very full tummy. 

I headed home the next day evening. The travel desk didn't order flight meal for us (which they previously did) and I made sure that I filled my tummy 1st. 

Bcos I was from the budget airline, the food choices were limited. This was like the only restaurant at the terminal. 

Not bad, a tad salty though. 

It was after midnight when I finally reached home. Yay! One more trip done!

Mummy Lim


We Also Got New Toy

I bet Daddy Lim must be super thrilled when he received his iPhone 15. We also want the same joy, but we are not lured by iPhone 15. 

The year has come to an end and it is time for a new calendar diary! Oh yes, this habit/ hobby had been for years, back to my uni days (or earlier). 

I am thrilled with the delivery. 

This must be some knock-off bcos it only cost less than $10 but it looks very real. other than the fact that what used to be in Japanese is now in Chinese, it is all good. I is happy. 

I am not the only one who got a new toy. Zaky too. The teenager has grown taller, lost weight and very much into buffing up now. He is constantly telling us to see his biceps and his abs. Zzzzz. He is now trying to master pull-ups and he has tied jiejie's resistance band to jiejie's loft bed. Lol. Very innovative but dangerous bcos he stepped on jiejie's computer chair (with wheels) to do his pull-ups. 

He had been bugging for a proper pull-up bar. All teenager boys go through this stage is it? He bugged us enough apparently. 



I barely managed 1. Lol. Nana should start too. Hoho.

Mummy Lim

Sunday, September 24, 2023

Another One to the Dark Side

Nana had been raving about her iPhone since she went over to the dark side and had never once regretted. We still eye her with contempt whenever we needed to use her phone but couldn't navigate to what we needed. Lol. 

Truth be told, we were tempted when Nana praised about her iPhone. We resisted, or so I thought "we" did. 

IPhone 15 is out and Daddy Lim was telling me that they had finally changed to USB C. Ok, I duno what is the big deal, bcos android phones had been on USB C for a long while.  I only know that his current Samsung is fairly new and iPhone is very expensive. However, I sensed troubles. 

Such purchases usually start with the slightest and what seem casual and harmless comment. I had experienced it countless times, be it a new pair of skates, new gaming laptop, tablet, and even the car. Zzzzzz.. it basically means that research had been going on for a while and the purchase will eventually happened. There is almost no stopping. As he nicely puts it, he is not seeking my approval but merely informing me in advance. #花钱的

As expected. 

Not even the older model, nothing but the latest. I tried. When Nana asked for an iPhone, I got her an iPhone 12. It was good enough and she was happy with it despite iPhone 14 was in the market. 

The man is a level up. He played it big. Zzzzzz. He is obviously very happy and excited about his purchase, making sure that somebody was home to receive the delivery last Friday. Then he was happy meddling and setting it up, even late into the night and sacrificing his sleep. 

It is OK, I still love you, bb. And nobody wants your old phone. 

Mummy Lim

Sunday, September 10, 2023

Paika Yet Again Ep 1

Upon knowing that Nana had probably fractured her ankle again, Daddy Lim had decided to turn private this time. Uncle C had previously recommended a friend who specialises in children orthopaedic and had just turned private. We didn't take up the offer then, bcos Nana looked like she was healing well and just needed time. 

This time, we didn't want to take chances. We wanted and needed to find out what happened. We connected with the specialist while we were still in Bali, and arranged for an appointment on Thursday morning. To maximise possibility of insurance coverage, we also did a Whitecoat tele-consultation to get a referral letter. 

Daddy Lim was on leave on Thursday. I tagged along for the appointment, eagered to hear the diagnosis and rushing work in between. The clinic is in Mt Alvernia hospital.  

Dr Lam is a kids' doctor afterall. Nana looked very out of place. Lol. 



We have communicated with Dr Lam while in Bali. Based on the x-ray taken in Bali, he said that there appeared to be some displacement, meaning that the ankle/ bone has shifted. In cases like that, a surgery is likely. Back in mid April 23, the NUH doctor said that Nana had a bad fracture and a case that borderlines between cast and surgery. The doctor eventually decided to treat her conservatively and put her in a cast. 

We took the opportunity to ask about why it happened, the pros and cons of a surgery, if there is anything else wrong with her (bones), aftercare, etc. Dr Lam patiently answered all our questions. We gave him consent and he was able to access to all of Nana's previous x-rays from NUH. He doesn't think that there is anything else wrong with Nana (bone), given that it is her 1st and only fracture so far. 

He compared Nana's last x-ray from NUH (back in mid Jul 23) and noted that the displacement had already existed. He suspected that the bone moved while healing. Given so, it isn't the recent injury that had displaced the ankle and he now opined that it is a 50-50 between surgery and cast. Surgery gives more certainly in correcting the fracture but comes with its risk as it is invasive. When he showed us the last NUH x-ray (Jul 23), I was very surprised to see that the fracture line was actually still very visible. Back at the last NUH appointment, I was also shown the (same?) x-ray, but I couldn't make sense of it, didn't know where to look for the "line'. I was simply told that the line was still visible but faint and would further fade with time. I didn't know that it was so obvious. We probably would have taken more care if we had known. 

Nana was sent for another x-ray. Daddy Lim probably discussed with her and when they came back, she was sure that she wanted a surgery. It is the belief that a surgery will fix things properly, better and faster. Ya, we are all sick and tired of her paika-ness.

Dr Lam looked at her latest x-ray and commented that the displacement looks the same, meaning no further shifting from the recent injury. He then went on to comment that the ends of the bone had started to grow and heal. It also means that she didn't fracture (break) her bone totally this time - it was a through fracture back in April 23. 

After toggling with the many x-rays (she has many), including the earlier ones and in different angles, Dr Lam suddenly commented on one of the initial x-rays that the displacement was actually visible at the onset. However, it was small at 2mm and probably why the doctor decided on a conservative treatment. With that, and the fact that the ends of the bone has started to heal/ grow, Dr Lam now feels that we should give the bone another chance and time to heal. We could still opt for surgery but he would have to break and clean the already grown bone to set things proper. This means more trauma to the bone and not the most recommended option. 

So, we were eventually sent home. There is no need for any plaster cast but to use back her aircast. The aircast needs to be on 24/7 except for showers, with the intention to immobolise the ankle as much as possible. Heng, I didn't throw the aircast. I was already contemplating.

Her foot is still very swollen. 

This is Nana's latest x-ray. She is to come back 1 month later for the review. 

So what the doctor though happened was that her bone was healing but not fully healed. Then, with the months of non-usage of her right leg, her muscles have not built back, though she has started exercising recently and even managed a 2km run on the treadmill. When she landed awkwardly, her muscles weren't strong enough to hold her and thus twisted her poor ankle again and refracture. Is it a new fracture? No. Did she refracture her ankle? That was the term that the doctor used. 

She is likely to be in cast for another 2 to 3 months with no weight. There goes our snowboarding holiday. Fortunately, the snowboarding host is very accommodating and allowed us to shorten the snowboarding trip. Nana will be confined to the lodge when we do snowboarding. Daddy Lim had asked her to build snowman in front of the lodge or sing Christmas carols. We joked about returning from the snowboarding lesson to an army of snowman in front of the lodge. Lol. 

We also tried claiming the travel insurance. I live-chat with the customer service and was told that the travel insurance would cover for medical expenses related to accidents up to 30 days after the trip. Fortunately, I had the foresight to obtain a referral letter via Whitecoat bcos that was exactly what was asked for. Thereafter, I will just have to try whatever is claimable from my company's insurance, which will be minimal bcos it is a non-panel specialist. We will find out in 10 days if the claim goes through. 

Speedy recovery Nana. Let's pray that she will at least be off cast when we go to Japan. All holidays are good, cast or no cast, wheelchair or not, we will have fun. 

Mummy Lim

Saturday, September 9, 2023

Bali Bali Day 5: More Surfing and Home Sweet Home

I woke up early and went to the gym while the rest were still in lala land. I went past the giant chess set and was reminded of how the kids tried to play chess 6 years back. 

Goodbye Hardrock, you had brought us much comfort and enjoyment. 
Everybody was still sleeping when I went back to the room. I had to lug them out of bed for bfast. During bfast, we saw the staff celebrating the guests' bday. Aiya, our bdays don't fall during the school holidays, except for Daddy Lim, but we have bigger places to go to in Decembers. 


Our last visit to the beach. 

The tide was rising but still super low. Only Zaky bodyboarded and he had to walk out to super far. 

The rest of the time was spent in the room and doing last minute packing. 

Soon, it was time to head to the airport. We were advised to leave the hotel 3 hours before the flight, in case of traffic jam. It was easy to get a Grab. Water play must be very tiring. 

We struggled a little before we managed to get a wheelchair for Nana. Clearing the immigration was alright. Nana got us the priority lane, but it wasn't any faster than the normal lanes. We found some lousy lunch that weren't delicious but cost so much. Zzzzz.

On the way home! Yes, Daddy Lim was again on his own with more legspace. 



Zaky made me buy him chicken rice despite the loads that he already ate. He is a growing boy, and fortunately he is also growing taller and stretching out the fats. 


Home sweet home! 

Mummy Lim

Bali Bali Day 4: Surfing and Bodyboarding

Nana missed her night dose of medicine bcos she skipped dinner. She woke up at 6ish, grumpy, in pain and irritated. To allow medicine, we headed for bfast at 6ish. 

The buffet spread was good. We are happy people when there is pick and choose bfast. 



The restaurant has a corner for kids. The corner serves juices, pancakes, cereal and plenty of sweet stuff. Sugar rush kids in the morning? Hmmmm... 

Nana was feeling so much better. I wasn't sure if it was the full tummy or the medicine. Either way, it works. 

Daddy Lim and the kids were happy to catch a movie in the room while I hit the gym. I was very happy to see eplitical and treadmill. 


We went to the beach, to the same surf school, with Nana in a cast and wheelchair. Zaky wanted to continue with his surfing class. We negotiated to pay only IDR100k for the incomplete lesson the day before and another IDR200k for his lesson. 

While Zaky took his lesson, we fussed over Nana. Drinks? Snacks? Massage? Fake tattoo? The drink stall auntie was saying all the right thing, asking if Nana is my daughter or sister. Win le, come, serve me all the drinks. Lol. 

Zaky's instructor was lazy. His job appeared to be holding Zaky"s board and to launch him. Then, Zaky had to push his board, brave the waves and go back to his instructor. I see other instructors going to their charge and help them after they had surfed. 

Surfing is tiring business. After his 1 hour lesson, Zaky was good to leave the beach and for lunch. 

Pizza Hut! Bcos only Zaky was hungry (we snacked) and pizza hut was near.

We went shopping before returning to the room. 
Daddy Lim and the kids each bought a T-shirt. Nana chose one for Zaky. I bought a new cap to replace the one from 6 years ago. 

We headed back to the beach in the afternoon. Nana was happy scrolling her IG in the room. This time, the boys loaned a bodyboard and tried body surfing. 

Zaky got it fairly quickly. Daddy Lim barely had 1 good surf in the hour. Zaky said that Pappy is too heavy. Haha. 



What did I do while the boys had fun? Act pretty with my new cap. 

Nobody wanted to leave the room for dinner. This is when Mummy power comes in - mummy go tabao. As I walked back from the restaurant with my tabao, I saw somebody's romantic dinner setup. 

This was ours. Lol. 

But our dinner was actually very delicious. Indonesian food. 
It was early evening but we were all tired. Zaky fell asleep at 7ish. I stole a nap until Daddy Lim woke me up at 9.30pm. We had intended to watch the live band. 

We did that!




There were several kids, who enjoyed the band as much as we did, but didn't last long before bed time calls. 
Somebody was setting off fireworks at the beach. 




The band was done at about 10.30pm. We headed back to our sweet bed. 

Mummy Lim