Thursday, May 21, 2026

More Snowboarding and Now with Snowmonster

Bcos Trifecta is going to be closed for upgrading, we have decided to try Snowmonster. Social media is sneaking on me bcos their reels kept coming up. Snowmonster has moving carpet too but they use the “enoki” carpet and is supposed to imitate real snow more. 

Daddy Lim, Nana and I signed up for Beginner 1/2 class last Monday at 7pm. Zaky tagged along as he needed to be fed after his medical appointment. Poor Zaky can only watch us have fun. 

The carpet feels so, so different. There is no bar to restrict us but we had to keep to our “lane”. The big carpet that we were on had 3 lanes. Bcos it felt so different, whatever we had learnt in Trifecta got thrown out of the window. I had to unlearn and relearn. We could all manage the heel and toe side and do falling leaves and took turns to practice 2 at a time, so that we had more space for the “leaves to fall”. 



The instructor, which Nana likes, kept telling us that we needed to be much more deliberated in our leaning when we move from side to side. This would help us when we try our J turn later. 

Constant heel/ toe side is super tiring. 



We took whatever chance to rest on the carpet. It is much more difficult to climb, easier to fall when trying to climb and much more difficult to stand up into heel side position on this enoki carpet. The difficulty to stand up to heel side is similar to the mountains. We literally sweat buckets, I think more from trying to stand up and “hold” the position while trying to climb than actual snowboarding.

I duno what exactly is a J turn but definitely some kind of turn and was keen to try. I was afterall able to turn from heel to toe to heel and back at Trifecta. But my attempts were disastrous. 

In snowboarding, it is very important to have the weight on the steering (front) knee even when the board is pointing vertical downhill. The natural human reaction would be to lean back to counter the “fall” but there is no way for the front knee to steer when the weight is on the back knee. To do a J turn, we have to 1st turn to point the board vertical from heel side, then use the knee to steer the board to heel side again. 

Nana and I kept trying while Daddy Lim took a rest. The instructor would hold one of our  hands while we attempt. We were taking turns to try and to fall. Luckily the falls were not too painful. I simply cannot trick my body to lean forward when I am going vertical downhill. Haiz. The instructor said that she had helped many people master their J turns and is confident to help us too but we didn’t achieve any J turns independently by the end of the lesson. Towards the end, I was so tired that I knew it was impossible to achieve one. 

That left me really upset. I kept thinking about how I can get the J turns. Should I try to lean more? How do I practice leaning more on the steering knee without actually snowboarding? Would it help if the carpet is at a higher speed? I fell asleep with those thoughts. I wasn’t the only one bcos Daddy Lim woke up and googled what a J turn is the next morning. Lol.

Bcos I was feeling so frustrated, I decided to go for another lesson. Nana was not free while Daddy Lim wasn’t keen. I went for class this evening and there was another couple. The 3 lanes carpet was under maintenance and we used the 2 lanes one. This carpet is supposed to have wider lanes. Before class, I was already practicing on a slope, without the board, trying to lean on the steering knee, visualising the turns, and hoping that it helps. 

It was a different instructor. We had to take turns. The gf could already do S turns on the mountain and was accompanying her bf, who has never snowboarded before. I got to warm up 1st while waiting the instructor and the couple to get ready. I tired to lean more deliberately. 

The instructor said that I would get my J turn by the end of the lesson. I hope! While the couple was on the carpet, I was either practicing on the slope or strapped one foot onto the board to practice leaning.

The gf and I learnt the J turns together. We started from heel side, lean the weight on the steering knee, which will naturally move the board to a vertical position, then “open up the shoulder”, which will naturally move the board back to the heel side position. After a few attempts, leaning on the steering knee when the board is vertical isn’t that scary. I managed to get my J turn! The gf was doing a much better job. 

I took a rest before going back to the carpet and tried C turns this time. It is toe side to vertical and back to toe side. From toe side to vertical requires the shoulder to open up. I fell a few times when doing that as I had the tendency to lean back. Leaning back on toe side means falling backwards and maybe even rolling backwards when on the mountain. Anyhow, after the board is vertical, I am to “close” my shoulder again to go back to toe side. This one took a few more guided tries from the instructor, but I got it too. Woohoo!!! 

By the end of the session, I was again perspiring but very pleased. Again, the tiredness wasn’t from the snowboarding but there was a lot of standing up to heel side position and hopping around to get the right heel/ toe side position. 

I also realised (again) the importance of a good instructor. Nana likes the last one but after my lesson with this instructor, the last one was lousy in comparison. She didn’t explain that “open and close” shoulder thing or we might have gotten our turns last lesson. I also wouldn’t feel so frustrated. Hahahah. 

I came home and happily shared my success with Nana. We are going for lessons again next Monday! I hope the Snowmonster Mother’s Day promo doesn’t end so soon. The lessons without promotions are so expensive, more expensive than Trifecta. 

Meanwhile, I will continue to find slopes to practice my leaning. Hoho. 

Mummy Lim


Wednesday, May 20, 2026

No More Paika

The MRI report made it sound really bad. In the end, it was diagnosed as a very bad sprain, no surgery is needed, just restraining ankle movement and give it chance to heal and rest. Dr Foo did mention that in cases of competitive athletes, they would consider surgery to ensure that the ligaments heal like they should. No, we are nowhere there.

Zaky’s recovery was obvious. The swelling was bad in the 1st 2 weeks but it went down quickly after that. Bcos it wasn’t time for his review and we didn’t know what the doctor would say, we still make him wear his aircast constantly. He also took every chance to ask me for an ankle massage. Zzzz. 

His review with Dr Foo was on Monday afternoon. Dr Foo took time to explain the MRI and report, which I wasn’t too concerned since Zaky’s ankle is seemingly doing well. The MRI noted some old injuries too. I am not surprised; we are all so active and every now and then, there is always somebody in the family with some kind of injury. 

Dr Foo gave his ankle a physical review thereafter. I did warn him of the potential smell attack. Lol. Zaky almost had no pain anywhere, except for some aches where the old injury is. We were both amazed at his speed of recovery and can only marvel at how fast young boys recover. If it had been me, I would probably still be in a wheelchair. 

Speaking of the wheelchair, we rented it for a month bcos we played doctor and thought that he would be immobile for a long time. I mean, the swelling, the crutches, the aircast - it all looked serious enough. The moment Dr Foo emailed to update on the MRI and that Zaky could try putting weight on the ankle, Zaky immediately ditched his crutches and the wheelchair has been totally isolated. We should return it this weekend, it is only taking up space at home. 

During Monday’s review, bcos Zaky is healing so nicely and almost all the swelling had gone down, Dr Foo said that he can go back to normal well supported shoes with ankle guard. Zaky’s reaction was immediate. 



His striking pink basketball shoes that he didn’t really quite utilised last NSG has been put to good use. The poor aircast has been abandoned and I am giving it some time to air before it finds itself in the storeroom. 

Dr Foo had already recommended physio about 2 weeks ago but I had been lazy. We should if we want him to go back to sports and to do so without another preventable ankle injury. The muscles need to be built up again to protect the ligament. Zaky is dying to be active again, he is full of envy when we go for snowboarding classes and he wanted to do surfing too. His school basketball coach, who didn’t know that he is injured, had asked him to go train at the club that he is coaching. Yes, there are so many interesting things and he is held back by a silly bad landing while playing mini hoops in class. I really don’t  understand how he did that to himself. 

Anyhow, Dr Foo said that it should be another few weeks before he can start slowly ease into physical activities. Of course, he has to be able to jump and jog 1st. 

We had all be warning Zaky about putting on weight bcos of his inactivity. We worried too much, teenage boys just burn calories as easily as breathing. We shall worry about ourselves, who put on weight even if we drink water. 

The next review will be 3 weeks later. Thankfully for Company insurance. 

Mummy Lim



Sunday, May 17, 2026

Giving Up on Yochi

It had been more than a week since Yochi is on Clomipramine and we had been confining him to the service yard at nights and when we are away at work or school. This means that he sometimes could be confined for really long hours. 

Each morning and evening, we still unfortunately wake up to a pee-mess service yard. Not only does he peed outside of the litter box, he stepped on his pee and then walked all over the service yard. If we let him out of the service yard at the wrong time, we can see pee paw prints in the kitchen as he walked out of the service yard. Haiz. I had been cleaning the service yard and chasing after pee paw prints at least 2 times a day.


The pee mess can also come in the form of droplets. I am now suspicious of all weird looking droplets and liquid at home. I do find these droplets everywhere except for the bedrooms (thankfully) where Yochi is not allowed most time.

We have updated Dr Tay, who commented that Yochi seems to be really strong willed. He has suggested that we add on a night dose of medication and further confine Yochi to a smaller space like a playpen or cage, so that Mochi can exert dominance. That would be so sad and I can already imagine Yochi’s insistent meowing. 

I read that maybe the same confined space, aka the service yard, is giving him stress and changing a different confined space would help. We moved him to the balcony to try for 2 nights when it didn’t rain. The 1st morning was encouraging with a few random droplets but we woke up to pee and vomit in the 2nd morning. Not only did we ended up with a massive balcony cleanup, we also found pee on the sofa and behind the sofa after we let him out. Zzzzzzz.

This morning, in the short span of time that he was let out and Daddy Lim preparing bfast, Yochi peed in the pee pad, and beside the litter box in the living room. This is on top of the mess that he had already created in the service yard. 

I also found pee outside Zaky’s door later. 

I wanted to find a reason for Yochi. Maybe it is not him but Mochi creating the mess and we are accusing the wrong cat? Hmmm… we have only caught Yochi in the act once but I don’t think it is Mochi. 

This morning, I texted Dr Tay again, sending him pictures, including this one with drips of pee that look blood stained. Maybe it is UTI? 

I duno which is the greater evil - Yochi to have UTI or pure behavioural issues.

Dr Tay looked at the various pictures and said that it is all pee. It is both exerting territorial claims as well as protesting, especially if he pees outside the litter box. Is there blood in the pee? Dr Tay said that it is darker urine but no blood.

He also asked if Yochi is still chasing Mochi. Of course! Unless Yochi is drugged and sleepy/ drowsy, else he is still does that a few times a day when somebody is home and let them both out. 

I have updated the fosterer and told her that we are giving up. The aggression issue can still be managed by segregation and reintroduction on a slower basis. We simply can’t handle the peeing issue. Bcos we are worried that Yochi would pee at places that he isn’t supposed to, we didn’t dare to let him roam the house while confining Mochi while we are out. We used to do that to give Yochi more time to roam. Things seem to have gotten worse in the last 2 days and Yochi has started peeing at random places, seemingly to mark territory. All the more, we felt compelled to confine him in the service yard. Sob. 

This week is the end of 12 weeks that Yochi has been with us. He will still be very affectionate but we are enjoying him less and less as the confinement increases. The fosterer said that she understands and didn’t mind taking Yochi back, since we have tried for a significant period of time. I offered to keep Yochi for a while more, if needed, so that she has time to find another fosterer or adopter. I don’t mind coordinate visit with potential adopters too. 

I think the deadline would really be my next business travel. I think that means early June. I think Yochi would be left to a filthy service yard for as long as I am away for business trip. 

Mummy Lim






Thursday, May 14, 2026

We Are Happily Snowboarding

The snow arena at Trifecta would be closing for upgrading from 25 May to 3 July. They should. The carpet has been patched in various places and the instructors are always asking us to pretend that those are ice patches and to avoid if possible. Zzzz.. From last week until 24 May, all the snow classes are at 50% discount, if paid directly. Trifecta also allowed us to freeze current credits and bring forward until the arena reopens. It is a good deal, which is also why the classes are very packed now. It has become a challenge to find a class with no or only 1 other pax. 

I went for the usual Intermediate I class last Saturday morning while Daddy Lim took Beginner II class. The classes were conducted side by side. There were 3 people in his class, and he got to practice a lot of his heel side and toe side. There was also a lot of rest as they had to take turns. I took class with another person and was on the carpet the whole time. We just went on and on doing the turns. It was my 1st time using the carpet on the left hand side and I had 2 dramatic falls. My butt! 


On Sunday evening, Daddy Lim and Nana finally went for their 1st Intermediate I class. There was another person in the class and they had to take turns again. 

Zaky and I waited for them. 

Nana and the other pax went 1st and without even letting them warm up, the instructor asked them to try to turn. Seriously? 

Nana attempted and got the hang of it after a few attempts. When it was Daddy Lim’s turn, he had it harder, simply bcos he cannot turn his head/ neck probably bcos of his AS. This head/ neck turning is so essential to the turns. He had a few dramatic falls. He said that it wasn’t painful but the falls look so painful to us. We went “ouch” on his behalf. He eventually did manage a few unsteady turns. I started wondering if this snowboarding is for him. He should just be a heel side warrior and do falling leaves down the mountain. Haha.






Zaky is very jealous. Too bad, his ankle is still in an aircast. The doctor mentioned that sports should only resumed after 6 months. He said that that he wanted to take snowboarding class too bcos we were all having so much fun. He also wanted to take surfing class. He wants everything now. I can imagine how bored he must be to be out of action for weeks. 

I went for Intermediate II class on Sunday afternoon. Yes, I am finally progressing to the next level. We are all so reluctant to move up. What did I do that is different from the Intermediate I class? No leh. Well, the carpet went faster and the slope was raised higher at one point so that we would go lower and be in active stance positions. It was fun and tiring and I am still not putting my weight on my front knee. Zzzzzz. I am still not steering with my knee. The instructor says that one can only get away with bad habits on gentle slope. Snowboarding is such a counter intuitive sports. Other than having both feet straps into one board, one is supposed to learn in the direction of slope. That feels like teasing death constantly.

Nana has asked for classes again bcos it is so much fun. The classes are so packed. Zzzzzz. Meanwhile, I am also looking at packages with the other “snow” places, so that we can continue practicing while Trifecta closes. J, the lady whom I befriend from class told me that Snowmonster, with the enoki alike snow carpet is not bad. The enoki alike carpet feels more snow-like. They have a 50% discount for Mother’s Day and each class is at $60 now. We have all booked the Beginner class on Monday evening. Hoho.

Mummy Lim



Sunday, May 10, 2026

Happy Mother’s Day, Happy 18th Anniversary

Nana’s bday falls very near to Mother’s Day. I get reminded of her dramatic birth story every Mother’s Day. 

In celebration of Mother’s Day and Nana’s bday, Popo has prepared the “popiah party”. Popo made such nice popiahs and bcos of what her grandkids eat and don’t eat, we always have very interesting ingredients like Taiwan sausages, chicken nuggets, pork belly, etc. Even Zaky, who is aversed to most vegetables, enjoys her popiahs. In fact, he had been the one requesting for the popiah party for a while.  

Popo didn’t disappoint. We arrived to a spread. Yum!



We are missing the 2nd F, who is in Ho Chi Minh for her internship. She is missing on the good food.

We also gathered to celebrate Nana’s 18th bfast. 



Happy 18th Birthday, Nana! 

We are always craving for home cooked food. Popo knows and also prepped plenty of nicely cut fruits for us. Unfortunately, our tummies were bursting from the popiahs.

There were so much food and we had leftovers. I happily tabao them home. 

Mummy Lim



Thursday, May 7, 2026

Yochi is Upset; Mummy is Busy

Just when I last updated that Yochi has stopped vomiting and things were on the upturn, Yochi had to show me who is boss. 

On Sunday, I returned from my gym class to clean his puke. This time, it was half digested food. Then he started acting and meowing funny. He started peeing on 2 random spots in the house and was the usual aggressive to Mochi. I don’t know why Yochi was acting that way. I thought we solved the peeing issue, why did it come back after 11 weeks?

This peeing thing is really my irk. Cats’ pee stunk and worse if you can smell it but you can’t find it. Then, there is of course the cleaning up. Arrrrrrgggghhh.. 

I had been considering 2 things - to do the cat reintroduction (that means separating them again) and to bring Yochi to a vet. I was triggered. Coincidentally, a colleague knows of a vet who does house visits. Yochi was once again confined to the service yard and I made an appointment with Dr Tay. 


It was a long agony wait for the vet’s appointment on Wednesday morning. Until then, the Chis had been totally separated and we had busy separating the 2, even during meals. Mochi gets to roam the house most of the time; he is afterall the resident cat. When Yochi gets his “free” time, Mochi will be confined to my room or the balcony. Mochi loves the balcony anyway. Chill, chill. 

Bcos of the peeing issues, Nana was warned not to sleep with Yochi. We also didn’t dare to allow him into the rooms. Meanwhile, Mochi benefitted from not worrying about being attacked when walking around in the house. So sad to think about it. 

Each morning when I wake up and after work every evening for the past 4 days, I found pee outside of Yochi’s litter box and the entire service yard would be pee stained bcos he would have stepped on his own pee and walked everywhere. I have to clean the service yard 2x (at least) per day. I want to cry. It is not only about wiping up the pee, I also have to wipe clean the entire service yard with wet wipe. 


I think our house smelled quite bad. Sob. The last time we confined him (in the initial days), the peeing issue almost stopped immediately. This time, it didn’t. His vomiting issue did seem better and the fur on the 3rd bald spot is also growing back and so far, no new spot appeared. 

Thankfully, the cleaning auntie was here also on Wednesday morning. I had already cleaned the service yard in the morning but auntie could give the house a good wipe/ mop. Bcos I was working from home and Yochi could hear my voice, he meowed persistently to be let out of the service yard. In the very end, I confined Mochi instead. He looked at me with his sad eyes and meowed very gently, which I heartlessly ignored and worked. 


As if to show who is boss, Yochi almost immediately peed outside the litter box. Zzzzz..

Dr Tay finally came and assessed Yochi. The good thing is that Yochi didn’t at all escape or hide. Dr Tay doesn’t think that it is UTI; Yochi looks too healthy and too active to be having UTI. The bald spots are probably yanked out (by Mochi? No way) or dropped when he rubbed himself against hard objects, since they are in areas that he can’t reached by licking or scratching. His skin looks healthy and thus unlikely to he fleas or ringworms. The vomiting is probably fur balls or him eating too quickly. In other words, unlikely to be medical condition. 

It is so strange for his sudden change in behavior after 11 weeks. Dr Tay was puzzled too. His guess is that Yochi has been asserting his dominance and the Chis have been trying to establish that balance in co-existing. Mochi has started to fight back, mainly hissing, tried to paw a little but mostly running away and hiding after Yochi attacks him. Then one bad day (Sunday), Yochi decided that this is not good enough; he wanted to be the real boss. So the peeing outside of the litter box is to tell me that he is not happy. Why tell me? Sob. Dr Tay said that if he pees on the bed, he is telling us that he is really angry. He did that already in the beginning, but probably no chance now since he isn’t allowed into the rooms. 

He gave me several options:

1. To put Yochi on Clomipramine, which is an antidepressant and used to treat anxiety in cats. 
2. To cage Yochi and allow Mochi to show Yochi who is boss, which probably wouldn’t work with Mochi.
3. To cage Mochi and force him into submission - sob!
4. To give up on one of the cats. T.T

I opted for the 1st option for now. 

The medicine is supposed to make Yochi calm, drowsy and thus less aggressive. We are to give him 0.5ml every day. As to when the peeing would be resolved? Nobody knows. How long do we need to keep him on this? Nobody knows too. It is a wait and see thing. Dr Tay said that we can actually let the 2 cats interact after we started on Clomipramine. Yochi would be milder and hopefully Mochi would have “better chance” to show his dominance. 

Dr Tay wanted to check on Mochi too, to see if he is doing ok after these 3 months. Mochi was so scared, that he squeezed and hid behind the washing machine. Zzzzz. Speaking of which, Mochi was probably so busy running away in the last 3 months that the bald spots issue disappeared. In the last few days, he was overgrooming again. Wah, how ah?

I updated the family and JJ - Yochi’s fosterer before we got him. This was meant to be a long trial period and she did mention that if it doesn’t work out eventually, we can “return” him. Though I always see on her FB post on how she guilt trapped potential adopters who return the cats. Sob. I feel guilty already. I told her that we would try out for another 2 weeks; I  really at my wits end. I can’t cope with this service years cleaning 2x a day and we can’t confine Yochi forever in the service yard. She appeared apologetic but I think not. I should also prepped myself if she really did guilt trap me.

The 1st dose of medicine was mixed into Yochi’s snack. He is food motivated but didn’t finish his snack this time bcos of the medicine. He was meowing so much when I confined him and he knew that I was home. I eventually escaped to the office. Ya, I ran away from home, from my pets. 

I had dinner plans and in the late afternoon, Zaky said that Yochi still didn’t finish the snack. He rather not eat it with the medicine. He also didn’t pee on the floor. My hopes were up. I didn’t check on him when I came home. 

This morning, I still had to clean the service yard but there was just a little pee on the floor but pee stains everywhere. He also vomited. Haiz, when will this end? 

I thought Yochi would be hungry enough and eat his bfast even if I mixed the medicine into the wet food. I gave him only his wet food. Again, he showed me who is boss. Eventually, with Nana’s help, we force him the medicine. 

He slept after that. 

I thought maybe it is the medicine. Then, Mochi was sleeping too. Maybe not. Haha. 

Let’s wait and see. I still think Mochi wants a friend but Yochi doesn’t love him. 

Mummy Lim





Sunday, May 3, 2026

More Snowboarding

I did my 3rd Intermediate I class on Wednesday night. I was again the only student and it was repeating and practicing my turns over and over again. We get different instructors and each of them have different teaching style. We also formed our opinions of who are the better ones and tried to book classes with them. Unfortunately, most of them are part timers and their availability limited. 

The same couple whom I took class with a few weeks back had their lessons after me. I took the opportunity to ask them about the Shenzhen indoor snow resort (yes, that is now in my holiday plan) and they coincidentally were heading over the next day! We exchanged numbers and I am waiting to hear from their experience. 

Nana finally found time to take her 1st proper snowboarding lesson. We met for dinner and I fulfilled my mummy duties to feed her. 

She did the Beginner I class on Thursday 9pm. While I didn’t take any classes, I was there to watch her fall. Lol. She was also the only student. 

The 1st classes are super tiring bcos it is constantly on heel side, then switch to toe side and then repeat. Her instructor was good, giving very precise and clear instructions. 



Nana suddenly looks so young again. It had been a while since I watched my kids learn a new sports/ take lessons. One thing about Nana - her head shape must be weird bcos her helmet (whatever kind of helmet) will always be crooked. 

She was so tired that she simply flop onto the carpet during breaks, regardless of whether the carpet was dirty or wet. Lol.

The instructor said that Nana is ready for the Intermediate I class next. Like me, Nana was like noooooo… I want to do another Beginner class. Lol. 

It was a good class for her and she woke up with muscle aches at weird places. Lol. I had muscle aches on my arms bcos I was hanging on to the bar with my dear life and blue blacks on my inner upper right arm, to add on to the ones on my left arm from the previous lesson. Haha. 

Daddy Lim got motivated too. When he took the Intro class, he was the only student and got on the snow carpet. The instructor told him that he could skip Beginner I class and head straight to Beginner II class. Did we do that? No!! We took the Intermediate I class together on Saturday night. Bcos we were the only ones (strategically planned), the instructor was able to cater to our progress. Oh, we had the same instructor who taught Nana.

It was almost the 1st time that Daddy Lim got on the carpet and he fell so much, especially during toe side. Bcos he was constant on heel or toe side, he had to take multiple breaks, also to recover from his falls. Two of them were very hard falls on his butt when he was practicing his toe side. He fell so hard that his glasses flew off. Poor thing. 

He said that his already bad neck hurt so much from the falls. I know; my neck has no issues that I got bad neck ache and bad muscle falls from previous lessons when I had spectacular falls. Our poor necks are taking all the toll. Daddy Lim is even considering to just build snowman or do sledding when we go snowboarding at the end of the year. Sob. Nana asked him to try to be a heelside warrior and heelside all the way down the mountain instead. Haha. 

Daddy Lim could move to Intermediate I class next. Like Nana, he thinks that he should do 1 more Beginner II lesson. Ya, we are all not confident. Lol.

Zaky is now super jealous of all the fun that we are having during class. Hohoho. 

Mummy Lim

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Zaky Pai Ka Update 1

We got the referral letter from WhiteCoat. I found a panel specialist at the Farrer Hospital, which is near to our place and an appointment was made for 11.30am yday. Thankfully for WFH and flexi working. 

Dr Foo examined the previous Xray and could not see any fracture. He had to do the smelly job of removing the half cast and examin Zaky’s foot. Zaky had already warned the doctor beforehand of the smell attack. Lol. Bcos his foot is still very swollen and he could barely put weight on it, the doctor suspected a ligament tear and suggested a MRI scan. 

There are 2 ligaments in our ankle. The treatment is similar to fracture - plenty of rest, limited movement and little weight on it. In a very bad tear situation, surgery would be required but Dr Foo didn’t think we would end up there. MRI is expensive, which is why when he last sprained the same ankle, his coach suggested MRI and I conveniently ignored the suggestion. It was too troublesome to get referral letter and specialist appointment and all. 

Bcos the half cast is uncomfortable and there isn’t a visible fracture, the doctor also recommended an aircast. Nana had that too, after she progressed from a full cast. I have thrown hers away, it couldn’t fit Zaky anyway. The aircast is very much welcome. Zaky can now air and wash his stinky foot and is happily without any cast at all at home.. until we nag at him.

Zaky got to comfortably sit in the wheelchair while I mummy him around. I even have to help him wipe down his stinky feet before the staff help with the aircast. I was worried that the staff will faint from the stench. He commented that his ankle is so swollen. I cannot see the “really swollen” part.

Bruises have appeared on both sides of the foot too. 

The aircast is very expensive, more expensive than a good pair of branded shoes and it is only 1 boot. It cost us $250. Zzzzzzzz.

The MRI was done at the HMI medical center across the road. Zaky was comfortably wheelchaired over. New achievement unlocked - the 1st in the family to get a MRI. He said that it was very boring; he basically laid on the bed for 20 mins in the same position while the scan takes place. 


What was very funny was that the clinic staff (2 of them) thought that Zaky was my “brother”. For a while, I was super pleased, thinking that I look very young. Actually not; they both thought that Zaky is very old. Hmmmm… ya, he probably looks 30 YO. Lol. They took a 2nd look at him and still commented the same. Muahahaha.

The MRI report took a couple of days. I just received a very medically worded report and thankfully, there is copilot. I asked copilot to explain in simple terms. Copilot says: 

“You have a severe ankle sprain with torn ligaments, bone bruising, and irritated tendons, but no broken bones or tendon ruptures.

More plainly:
Two of the main outer ankle ligaments are badly torn (one is completely torn)
One inner ankle ligament is partially torn
There is bruising inside the ankle bones from impact
The ankle joint and nearby joints are inflamed and swollen
Several tendons around the ankle and heel are overused and inflamed, but not torn

Overall, this represents a serious ligament injury to the ankle, often from a strong twist or roll, with associated inflammation — but importantly, the joint surfaces and tendons are still intact.”

I also asked copilot if surgery would be required for situations like this and copilot says: 

“ Most people with this injury do NOT need surgery.
The usual treatment is non‑surgical (conservative), especially at the beginning.

Usual treatment approach
1️⃣ Early phase (first few weeks)
Goal: reduce pain, swelling, and protect healing ligaments

Immobilisation

Walking boot or ankle brace (often 2–6 weeks depending on pain/stability)

Rest, ice, elevation
Anti‑inflammatory medication (if suitable)
Limited or protected weight‑bearing initially

2️⃣ Rehabilitation phase
Goal: restore strength, motion, and stability

Physiotherapy is essential, focusing on:

Range of motion
Strengthening surrounding muscles
Balance and proprioception (to prevent re‑injury)

Gradual return to normal walking, then sport/activity

✅ Even with a complete ATFL tear, many patients heal well with rehab and never need surgery.”

So, the good news is that no surgery would be required for now. The bad news is that Zaky may not recover in time if we decided to go for a snowboarding trip at the end of the year. Then, he can build snowman while we go snowboarding. That was exactly what Nana did when we went snowboarding in Iyama Japan in end 2024. Lol.

MRIs are very expensive and copilot says that MRI is usually not required for the monitoring of the recovery, but the state of recovery is more based on the doctor’s assessment. Another MRI may be needed if recovery doesn’t happened as planned after a period of time. 
Accidents that happened in school are actually covered by the school’s insurance, though I duno what kind of coverage it will be. We will file a report anyhow and decide later if claims from the school is needed. 

It is time to rent that wheelchair. 

Mummy Lim


Sunday, April 26, 2026

Lesson 6: Snowboarding Intermediate I Class 3rd Time!

My last lesson was before our Taiwan trip. That was 2 weeks ago. There is always this anxiety that I would again lose all my basics when I go for class, like what happened 3 lessons ago, and I fell so many times just during warmup. 

Choosing a class slot is a strategic game. I had figured out that there would be a fair bit of waiting if the class is more than 2 pax. The strategy then means 1st identifying the available time slots that work, then waiting until the 11th hour to make the booking, so as to make sure that the class only has one or no other person booked. The Trifecta class schedule webpage is a now constantly opened on my browser. 

I had booked the 2pm class yday. I booked it at 1.15pm when I was already making my way to Trifecta. I was the 2nd person for the class. Nice! 

This is my 3rd Intermediate I class and I suspect that I would probably get stuck at this level forever. Lol. We did the same thing over and over again. Heel side to toe side and then back to heel side and kept going again and again. Bcos there were only 2 of us in the class, the simulator only stops when one of us fell, me mainly. The instructor asked if we needed a break, the other participant said no and so we were on the moving carpet for the entire hour. 

I was exhausted. When there was 3 in a class, I rest 50% of the time. When I was alone, I rest when I fell and pause to listen to the instructor’s explanation or instructions, or simply chit chat to stall for time to rest. This round, we just went on and on. My sweat dripped at times. Towards the end, my body was not listening to my brain. I had to concentrate so hard and kept repeating the instructions to myself out loud. So tiring. 

Also towards the end of my lesson, I thought I would hold on to the bar to rest while the carpet continues to roll. I was on my heel side. I apparently wasn’t paying enough attention bcos my toe side edge got caught, the bar continued to push me and I fell forward. I think that was why/ how I fell but anyhow, it was a very hard fell. I mermaided and the air got pushed out of my chest. The instructor asked me if I was ok. I think Ok ah, but I needed a moment to gather my thoughts and get myself ready again. 

It was a good lesson, there was a lot of practices. At the end, I asked the instructor if I can survive on the mountains already. “Yes!” Oh really? Apparently on the mountain, the heel side turn to toe side and back will give me a wide S curve down the slope. I can’t tell now bcos all I do is to hold on to the dear bar for life. 

Bcos of the fall, I had a whiplash and woke up with a sore neck this morning. I also got my 1st blue black on my left inner arm, from grabbing the bar so hard.

Nana asked me about my lesson. She hasn’t done any lesson since the intro class 1.5 weeks ago. She doesn’t even know that the lessons are conducting on the other side with the moving carpet. Nana is eager to go for lessons but just needed to find time. 

Daddy Lim was supposed to take lessons with me but he changed his mind at the last minute. He asked if we are really going for a snowboarding holiday at the end of the year. If yes, he would start his lessons too. 

Of course! Tadah! 



He was the only student and the instructor did so much more with him than my intro lesson lor, teaching him how to turn. My intro class was solely heel side and toe side down the slope. Zzzz. I think I will still fall big time when I had to get down that ski lift and that curvy path. Zzzzzzzz. 

Daddy Lim got to go to the moving carpet! Not fair! 

He had quite a few falls once he got onto the moving carpet. The last fall, his board got caught on the damaged part of the carpet and he rolled. Lol. 

Zaky would probably not be taking lessons. I don’t think he needs it and thus don’t waste my $$. He is also still pai ka-ing.

Daddy Lim said that it was very fun. I am sure he is looking forward to his lessons like I did.

Mummy Lim



Saturday, April 25, 2026

The Chis

Yochi has been with us for 9 weeks. Everytime when I am away, I will hear about how bad he had bullied Mochi or peed outside the litter box or vomited. I got discouraged and would think that things wouldn’t work. Then things will get better and we decided to try a bit more. This has been the situation for the past 9 weeks, the ups and the downs. 

Then, Yochi started getting bald spots at the back shoulder, an area that he wouldn’t be able to lick. We really cannot tell what caused it. The timelines as follows: 

21 Feb - we got Yochi

7 Mar - we brought him to vet for 2nd vaccination jab

29 Mar - spotted a small spot that was balding on his left upper shoulder, Nana and I showered him and gave him evolution and the spot got bigger. One spot became 2 and then they combined to become 1 big patch

This was the original spot. The location is one that he couldn’t reach and thus unlikely to be excessive grooming.

The spot grew. It wasn’t sore or angry, just literally a bald spot. 

Le


At this point, the 2nd bald spot was starting to form beside it.

Then the 2 spots combined. Zzzzz…


I actually made an appointment to bring him to the vet already. I was worried that the bald spot would keep growing and he would become botak. Yochi also vomits very frequently, like once very few days. We haven’t seen him vomit but would find patches of dried vomit, that appear more like dried patches of liquid. When we tried to clean up, there was a lot of fur.

I had been procrastinating bcos the last time Yochi came back from the vet, he turned very aggressive towards Mochi. Ya, vet visits are very stressful. I consulted Yochi’s fosterer, who also suggested that we do home remedy and self treatment instead of sending to the vet for the time being. She also suggested that we tried to comb him more, so that he doesn’t digest too much fur. We did that for both Chis and had fur flying everywhere in the house. Lol. 

This morning, I thought that fur was starting to grow back in the 1st spot and we haven’t found new vomits. I canceled the vet appointment. But ah, did I see a new spot appearing above the current big bald patch? Why ah? 

Yochi is still bullying Mochi and I saw Mochi trying to fight back at times. There are also occasions that they exist in harmony. This morning, I found them both in the balcony, looking at the bird in our neighbours balcony. It all depends on whether Yochi instigates an attack. Poor Mochi. The only good thing is that Mochi now has no time to over groom himself and no new bald spots. 

Yochi can be very cute too. He is so affectionate and would jump up the sofa just to lie next to the human. Haiz, pls live in harmony. 

Mummy Lim