Big Changes

There are some major changes to our lives. My bro's family has shifted to the new condo. Right before they shifted, I received a sms from my sis one day, asking if she could move in with us. She had always felt as if she had intruded into their privacy. Something also happened at home to make her raised the question. Of course, it was hard for her to ask me too, she didnt want to invade our privacy as well. I guessed it was a choice out of no choice

My sis needed a roof over her head. Daddy Lim is really nice and agreed to take her in. She will be staying in Lil Shauna's room for the time being. My sis claimed that she has nothing much but I was shocked when we helped her shift. -.o" Hello, you better start packing and cleaning your room hor. ;p Nono will continue to stay with my bro's family. We are not home most of the time and the dog will be even more lonely if we are bring him home.

Shifting place, changing new environment is always a stressful event. I guessed that stress got onto my mum pretty badly. Last night, she called to say that she was walking to my home from the new place, which caught us by surprise. We were supposed to go fetch baby at their new place instead. She had no keys and was waiting for us at the door when we reached. Baby was already asleep by then.

I was surprised to find her sniffling. She was very upset that my sis has shifted out. The stress of shifting and packing added on and somebody pulled the trigger at home, making her erupted. She went on weeping, complaining and lamenting. I guessed it was good for her to let out. There was just so much built-up emotions. So much injustice that she felt and bottled up.

At the end of it, she asked how should she proceed. I told her that my place is always opened for her and she asked to stay with us too together with Nono. I am not sure if the arrangement is permanent or temporary. But I just see big adjustments for all of us to make.

Daddy Lim probably kena shock again. He is again very nice and kind and took my mum + the dog in. I guessed he has not much choice too. Hohoho. I told him that if my MIL wants to stay with us, I will be OK too. We still have a computer room. Nothing is impossible. Hohoho.

I am shocked too by the turn of events. If the arrangement is going to stay for awhile, house rules have to be made. For one, my mum knows that there will be no idol worshipping in my house. Even my Dad's tablet will have to be left at my bro's place.

Do help to pray for lots of strength. I think God is sooooooooo nice to me. Just when I asked on how to show the fruits of the spirit, He gave me so many opportunities. ;p

Mummy Lim