Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Congrats Ah Yee

Ah yee finally graduated from her masters. If my dad is still around, he would be so proud of us. Our parents are not highly educated and worked as hawkers for most of their lives yet their 3 kids all graduated from NUS. Both my brother and sister have a master degree. Moreover, ah yee was his favorite child. He would be so proud of her.

Ah yee invited us to her convocation. I had wanted to attend but decided otherwise when I realize that I have to sit in the hall for 4 hours just to see her for that 30 secs. So, we brought Lil Shauna to take pix with ah yee after her convocation instead to show support.

Daddy Lim and I were on half day leave and also took the opportunity to have a quiet lunch before we picked Lil Shauna from school.



My brother and his family were also there. Popo stayed at home with Lil Isaac and my youngest niece. We decided to leave Lil Isaac in Centris just in case he terrorise us all during the long car journey. He is so capable of that and the car journey is uber long. The convocation is held at expo. Coupled with the rush hour jam, we were more than happy when Popo offered to help us take care of Lil Isaac instead.



The 3 girls were eventually having a better time running around and lying on the floor than to take pictures with ah yee.


Yeah, congratulations ah yee. You made it.

Mummy Lim

Blocked No More

Remembered about the bad constipation that Lil Isaac has last week? He poo poo on his own after I got the suppository in. I said "on his own" bcos the suppository came out whole with a pellet size poo poo. But he also managed to remove a lot of poo poo after that. And then, he continued to move his bowels 3x! Each time, the stools were hard. Goodness, he was really a crawling bag of sh!t!

The removal of those hard stools seem to have unblocked his system. He started moving his bowel everyday or every other day after that constipation episode. His appetite also increased, though I can't tell for sure that the input and output issues are related lah.

All the credits have to go to Popo. After all those constipation, she has taken all the efforts to feed Lil Isaac lots of fibre and lots of water. Lil Isaac has even increased his milk intake, from 120ml to 140ml. He still doesn't enjoy his bottle and Popo took the pain to spoon feed whatever that is left in his bottle. I think Lil Isaac can do with a little bit more fats. He is at the 50 percentile, weighing about 9kg at 11month. I prefer him to be chunkier, at least I don't have to worry much if his appetite drops when he is sick. Hehe. Silly mummy.

Yeah, he is poo-ing. Seeing his poo makes me happy.

Mummy Lim

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Invaded!

There are many PRCs living in Jurong. I suppose quite a few of them are SPRs bcos they have their family in toll. When Lil Shauna was little and I used to bring her down to the park for walks, we see many PRCs grandkids with their grandparents.

The situation seems to have worsen. Lil Shauna's ballet class has so many PRCs kids, at least 30%! I am sitting in the LCentral lobby waiting for Lil Shauna to finish her class and I am the only SGP parent. I don't know where are the rest of the SGP parents but I am sharing the lobby with 5 other PRCs parents! Help! We are being invaded! These are only PRCs and we still have the Indians, Filipinos and Mynmese. Stop the foreign talents!

Mummy Lim

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Surprise!

Somebody called out to me while I was in Suntec just now. I saw a familiar face and recognized that she is an ex-school mate but I couldn't remember which school and her name. I was really surprised when she mentioned that we were primary school mates. I lost touch with ALL my primary school mates. In fact, the only school mates that I am still hanging out with are the SHSS girls.

She told me that she is keeping touch with some of the primary school mates via FB and asked me for my FB. She mentioned that she will add me. She then went on to rattle some names of our primary school friends and it brought back memories. I mean, how long along was that!!?? 20 years??!!

I am excited and checked my FB for a few times already to see if she has added me. Goodness, I am again amazed at the power of FB. Maybe I should try to look for some of the primary school friends than to wait for this particular friend to add me.

Mummy Lim

Walking

I remembered that Lil Shauna started learning how to walk when she was 11 months old. She started her unassisted steps when she turns one. Although walking brings about new set of problems, I prefer her to walk than to crawl. That is bcos she always attempting to struggle free so that she can go to the floor to crawl, even when we are outside.

Lil Isaac is now at that stage. He is turning 11 mths but is showing no sign of walking. He barely cruises and doesn't attempt to walk assisted. Is it bcos boys are slower? I don't know but I do know that he is a master crawler and is everywhere on his fours. I was hoping that he would walk soon. It is a struggle now when we are outside. I am soon looking forward to him walking when we go for out next overseas trip, believing that it will be better and easier if he walks.

So, what can he do not? When he is in a good mood, he can wave bye-bye, clap and raise his hands when he hears "hooray". He can say "mum mum" for food and loves hide and seek and can go "ah-tah" non stop.

It is so tiring to chase after him now. I pity Popo and auntie. It is ok, time flies and he will grow up soon.

Mummy Lim

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Kiddy Ride


If you ask me, the ride is pretty worth it. For $3, it kept jiejie happy bcos she gets to steer the ride and pillion mummy and didi.

Mummy Lim

NUH Specialist Visit

I brought Lil Isaac for his follow up with the NUH specialist this morning. Our appointment is at Clinic A, the same clinic which jiejie had her follow up 3 years ago. It brought back lots of memories. Then, Popo will tag along for every single follow up appointment and I enjoyed her company. Now, she is far too busy with the other 4 kids at home to tag along. So, it was just Lil Isaac and me. I was actually a little anxious at first but reminded myself that it will be the few occasions that I have time alone with Lil Isaac and I should enjoy him.

We had a fairly easy time, even when we were caught in a traffic jam on the way to NUH. The hotdog bun fulfilled its purpose. Lil Isaac was very noisy when the PD was reviewing him bcos it was his nap time and he was thus not very happy to be poked and had his backside examined. He fell asleep when I latch him at the clinic after the PD’s review and slept all the way home.

I had thought that we will be seeing a skin specialist for his eczema. This was what the PD at NUH A&E’s referral about. Interestingly, a PD saw us and she did a thorough examination on Lil Isaac, asking about his hives, his eczema, his constipation, etc. I am actually quite glad. She asked me a ton of questions on his eating and bowel habits, which I found myself inadequate to answer. I wish Popo was there with me. She appeared to be more concern with his constipation problem than eczema. I supposed so too since his eczema looks very much OK today but his constipation problem had been plaguing us and today is day 5 of Mr Poo Poo’s absence, adding on to the trouble that he passed out pellet size poo poo yday and he bled. Poor boy.

The PD said that she could feel hard stools in his tummy and ordered suppository to help get rid of the hard ones that blocked the exit. The usual conversation about improving his diet, lacing it with more vegetables followed. I didn’t really catch all of what she said bcos Lil Isaac was moving around and performing his stances. We were again given lactulose to ease his constipation. The PD guessed that his hives were likely to be a result of a viral infection than allergic to lactulose. Then again, we were asked to go easy with lactulose and to monitor him closely. We can also opt for prick test for allergies that trigger his eczema. I haven’t decided on that. We can also start giving him fish to see if he is really allergic to fish as per his first hives reaction to probably anchovies. All in all, there is no conclusive evidence to prove that Lil Isaac is allergic to a particular food/ medicine. We could order prick tests or simply try again and monitor. This is on the account that his reactions were pretty mild on both occasions. We are given a follow-up appointment 2 months down the road and I am happy to realize that the referral from NUH A&E PD entitles us to subsidized rates. Yippee.

We were given the same suppository which that locum failed to stuff into Lil Isaac’s backside. I was worried at first. However, I actually got it in very easily at Centris with Popo helping to distract him. I suppose Lil Isaac is a little more relax with Mummy poking his backside than some big size uncle, which helps greatly. Popo called shortly after I left to inform that the suppository came out with another pellet size poo poo. It didn’t look as if it has dissolved. She was suggesting giving him the lactulose and I was thinking of giving him suppository no. 2 tonight.

I received another call a while later to tell me that Lil Isaac poo poo on his own, before Popo managed to give him the lactulose and there was a lot of poo poo. I bet the smell was overwhelming too. The best part, Lil Isaac pushed out the poo poo with ease, with no sign of pain, discomfort or tears. Hmm.. I don’t know what worked, the lubricant, the suppository, the papaya that he had last night or the plum this morning. Anyway, it is news worth celebrating!

I hope things get better. I really hope. This poo poo war is very taxing.

Mummy Lim

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Constipated Again

I was instructed to buy papayas bcos Lil Isaac is constipated again. Today is day 4. Popo says that the poo poo is stuck there. There was lots of crying today but he only managed to squeeze out a small pellet. He bled there too. Poor boy. Popo even asked if we should give him the suppository.

I thought that we should try natural. Other than papaya, I bought plums and pears too. I hope they will help to expel Mr Poo Poo.

Popo fed him papaya just now and he tried again. He cried very badly while trying. It must be a combination of pain and discomfort. He finally got rid of 2 pellets and the second one drew blood. Ouch!

Popo will continue with plum tomorrow morning and if he still cannot move his bowel tomorrow morning, I am going to give him the suppository. I am glad that I am on morning leave tomorrow. I am supposed to bring Lil Isaac to NUH for the specialist follow-up on his eczema.

This is a terrible recurring nightmare. Popo is feeling so stressful over Lil Isaac's constipation problem. Getting him to poo doesn't mean the end of the problem but simply the start of the next problematic cycle. Popo packed so much fruits in his daily diet, how can he still get constipated? I am wonder if the constipation is triggered by some allergic that he develops over certain food that we gave him.

Please pray that he will be able to poo poo tomorrow.

Mummy Lim

New Aim

I am busier at work now and I am constantly running from one place to another, one task to another, one meeting to another. The only comfort is that I seldom have to work super late. Then again, it is usually 8pm when we get to the kids. Whatever time left to spend with them is so precious especially now that Lil Shauna turns in early in view of the absence of her afternoon nap.

Time passes too fast, days are flying by. I cannot believe that soon year 2011 is left with 3 miserable months. What have I accomplished? Well, if sustaining breastfeeding is an accomplishment, then I think I have one on my list. Otherwise, I better work hard to list down some new year resolutions for the next year. Which reminds me, I don't think I have achieved any of those that I set last year. Bleeehhhh...

And it doesn't help that I flare so very easily and quickly at work. Well, I haven't yell at somebody for awhile but I have definitely blew my top and raised my voice for countless of times just this past week. I get upset bcos i am too impatient. I get frustrated when others are not running fast enuff or doesn't get what I am am trying to bring across. It has gotten to a point that I wanted myself to cool down, especially when I realized that others are "cooler" and work still get done - no need to make myself miserable and spoils others' day. This will also save me from potential heart attacks.

For some unknown reasons, I ended work feeling bad yday. Maybe it is PMS, just that I am blessed with the absence of the "auntie" due to breastfeeding.

Yeah, cool it, cool it. Enjoy work. Work is miserable enuff, I shouldn't squeeze myself into a corner. Enjoy life, enjoy the kids. I am reminding myself to give the kids more hugs and kisses even when they irritate me to the point that I am worried that I might murder them. On that account, Lil Isaac looks super cute when he is asleep in my arms after the night feed. That is of course on nights that I have more energy, other that those that I required to crawl back to bed. Lol.

Mummy Lim

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Only 3?

I cannot believe that Lil Shauna is only 3. She looks so much older.



Don't you think so? Or maybe all kids like older than their age now?






Mummy Lim