Saturday, July 8, 2023

Biz Trip: To JKT and Back

After the June rest, it is time to travel for work again. This time, I flew to Jakarta. Compared to Mumbai, give me Jakarta anytime. It is less daunting overall, the flight is shorter and the departure timings are very earthly hours. 

The flight was at 9.30am. See how decent it was! I was very entertained at the airport. 


Before long, it was time to board and I met a colleague. I knew she was heading to JKT the same week but didn't know that we would be on the same flight. 

SQ! Very pleased to be on SQ after the last painful experience on Scoot. 

Bcos it was a 1.5 hrs flight. Food was served quickly. I had egg and suasage. Just in time for my growling tummy. Not bad. 

As quickly as food was served, it was cleared as well. The flight ended right when I finished my movie. I had to fast forward the last part to catch the ending. I caught up with the colleague, who was seated behind. Immigration was a breeze (thankfully) and the car ride to the hotel was easy too when there is companion. 

Our hotels were nearby. I almost had to take  a call at the coffee lounge as the room wasn't ready. Right at the last minute, the staff passed me the room key and I got comfortable for the call. I almost forgot how big the room is in Midplaza Ayana Hotel. 

It was such pity that I barely utilised the room for the 4 days. Right after my call, it was freshening up and heading to the office. 
Time passed so quickly and I had dinner with 2 Singapore colleagues. So coincidental that everybody was there. 

Was sleep easy? Of course. I didn't even bother to try to log in to Netflix. I had planned to wake up early the next morning and it was a real struggle. I made it anyhow. 

The gym was good. Big, spacious with many equipment. I did that pull up machine too.

Then it was meeting, office and back to the hotel. Another day passed. I was tempted to do comfort food (read: rubbish/ instant food from convenient store) but at least had in room dining. I know, this wasn't much healthier but it made me happy. Hoho.

On day 3, I kept up with my gym routine before leaving the hotel at 7.20am to head to the site at Cibitung. I was told to leave early to avoid the traffic. While in the car, I was meddling with my data roam as I couldn't get mobile data. The same had happened for the previous 2 days and I had been relying on WiFi. I was starting to curse M1. After some anyhow try, I finally managed to manually select a different Indonesia network partner and was connected to the world. It was scary to have no data in a foreign country and in a car with a driver driving me to duno where. 

The traffic wasn't too bad. Just that when we "arrived" at the "destination", it was some residential condo. Luckily I got network and also luckily, an Indonesian colleague picked up my help call and rescued me. The driver had entered a same road name but different address on Google map. He had to make a detour and I eventually got to the site 20 mins later. At least it wasn't like I was in a totally opposite direction. I eventually arrived safe and sound and had to leave the site at 3ish to again avoid the traffic. 

Dinner was at the Hotel Coffee Lounge with 2 other Singapore colleagues. Ya, we were all there coincidentally. While I was in JKT, ah yee and Athena arrived safely in Singapore. 

Friday was the last day of my business trip. 

It was a repeat of gym, meeting, office and more meetings. The hotel came with free bfast but I didn't manage at all to enjoy bfast bcos time was always too tight. Very busy. 

My departing flight was at 6pm. I left with a colleague at about 2.30pm. It was Friday afternoon (aka crazy traffic) and the sky was gloomy and threatening to rain (aka going to be even crazier traffic). It turn out fine and I arrived at the airport at 3.30pm while the colleague headed on to the other terminal for a different flight. 

It is always happy to go home after business trips. Hohoho. 

I found toastbox in the transit. 
I was hoping that it would be good. The staff used a weighing scale to measure the amount of milk. Turned out, the kaya butter toast was alright but the teh C tasted funny, like a diluted bubble milk tea. 

My flight was supposed to be 6pm but was delayed to 6.40pm due to the delay of the inbound flight. It was another turnaround flight. I got work done and calls too before it was finally time to board. This time, I got the window seat. 
My center fellow passenger took the arm rest but his elbow invaded into my air space. Tsk. Luckily it was only a 1.5 hrs flight. 

The plane didn't take off until about 7.30pm. Soon after, dinner was served. I had thought that I should skip dinner since I had the kaya toast but I was hungry. Zzzzz. I chose the beef and potato and it was so good. Hoho. Or maybe I was so hungry. 


It was 10ish Singapore time when I touched down and already 11ish when I settled down into my bed. I didn't even get to see ah yee and A, who were already nicely settled in lala land. 

Yesh, it is so nice to be back. I am absolutely not looking forward to the Mumbai trip at the end of the month. Zzzzz. 

Mummy Lim

Sunday, July 2, 2023

June 2023 Gathering

For a few months, I was helping to organise the monthly gatherings. Finally, it was others' turn to arrange and I only have to turn up. I like. 

The gathering was planned on the PH, which also meant that the kids should be generally free - no tuition, no enrichment classes. After messaging and confirming who and who would also be coming, both Nana and Zaky wanted to tag along. Ya, now they decide and no longer gong gong let me bring them. 

The original plan was to roam Vivo and then dinner. As there were a number of kids coming, I suggested beach at Sentosa to burn off some of kids' energy. I duno what happened to the planning bcos it ended with just Auntie H's and our family. We also "collected" T on our way. 







It had been a long time since the kids gathered at the beach. It was only when we were on the way, that I realised that the kids didn't pack swim stuff. *palm-face* Yet, the kids found plenty to entertain themselves. I do miss this beachy outing actually. Darn, they grow up too fast!

We met the remaining gang back at Vivo for dinner. 





The kids made up 2 帮派 - the big kids ran off after dinner. They had wanted to chitchat at the playground. The little ones were left behind. 


We had to leave when the little ones got bored, starting playing catching, screaming and then crying when they fall. Ooooo... we are so far from those days and I don't miss those days. Lol. 

We had to leave at 8ish bcos it was a school day the next day. 

As kids grew, we found ourselves reminiscing about the old times alot more. This evening, we happened to drive down to Suntec and I finally agreed to Marche. The kids always bugged for Marche, which is more expensive than our usual restaurant meal. Daddy Lim and the kids were so surprised at my generosity. 


I think the last time we visited Marche was a couple of years back. The kids surprisingly commented that Marche is overpriced and the food isnt as delicious as they had remembered. They were like, "the rosti at that kopitiam is better", "the ntuc roasted chicken is better".... 

They concluded that Marche just held special memories. They fondly remembered Marche as the moo moo place, where they sometimes dined with Boo and then played at the playground. Obviously, they can no longer fit into the playground. They took a look and commented that they remembered the playground to be much bigger. Lol. Relativity. They also agreed that they wouldn't bug me for Marche for a while. Hoho. 

Mummy Lim

Wednesday, June 28, 2023

National Roller Freestyle Championship 2023

Back in May 2021, out of the blue, Zaky tried aggro skating. Bcos of covid, the 4 private aggro skate lessons that I booked for him with Exis (Coach Justin) progressed very slowly. We finished them only in December 2021.

Zaky started under Coach Nizam in February 2022 and it had been almost 1.5 year. I must say that Zaky has progressed very nicely under Coach Nizam's guidance. Zaky is into big airs and jumps bcos these are more exciting and fun. If given a choice, he wouldnt work on his grinds bcos they are so much harder. I got reminded of Nana - she is also more of a jumper than a spinner. 

A few months back, Coach N shared that the skating competition is finally coming back, after the long covid break. Zaky was very excited. 

Only Zaky signed up under Junior category. The cut off age was 13 and he is still 12 before his bday. These are the times that one celebrates over a late birthdate. Oh, and qualifying for cheaper child price attraction entry tickets too. Given that he is almost 13, we are guessing that he would have age advantage over the other competitors.

Nana didn't join bcos she is paika. Daddy Lim and M aren't confident enough. Again, I was reminded of Nana, who was never quite keen in her ice skating competitions. On the other hand, Zaky falls into the group who is always super keen to compete. Same parents ah? 

The Junior Qualifying commenced at 11am. Registration started at 10am while the skatepark opened at 8am for all. Having spent an entire day in USS the day before, Zaky had trouble waking up. We finally made it to the skatepark at 9ish. The weather wasn't too bad, slightly cooled by the pre-dawn downpour. 


Nana came to support Zaky before meeting with her friends. 
I went for a jog, coming back at 10ish to Zaky who was already soaked through in sweat and the kids telling me how advance and 厉害 the other Junior participants are. Out of the 14 participants, there is the IG famous 6 YO skaterchloe, who is well-known of her ability to do a 520 jump. Zaky's confident plummeted flat. 

Nana was hoping to see Zaky competes in the qualifying rounds before leaving. Just when the Juniors were gathering for briefing, it started drizzling. ZZzzzzz..  We had to wait for the rain to stop and the floor to dry. We also realised (when the Juniors gathered) that Zaky wasn't the only "big Junior". There were quite a few similar size to him. 

Nana had to leave and I wheeled her to the MRT. 
Can walk and stand already. I hope that means that her bone has healed nicely and she could soon joined us for activities. 

Just then, the drizzle turned into a downpour. I was trapped at the MRT station and it was almost 12pm when I walked back, just in time to buy snacks from Starbucks to feed the hungry boys. 

The weather was so bizarre. One moment, it was pouring, the next, the sun was out full force. Everybody started sunning their skates, socks and guards. Smelly siol.
I don't know what did Zaky do to his socks. I think the artificial grass patch at the bench area was wet and he stepped on it with only his socks. He ended up with soaking wet socks, like water can be squeezed out kind of wet. He was busy trying to dry them and was still at it when warm up started for the Juniors. Zzzzz. 

Ended up, he wore Daddy Lim's ankle socks and Daddy Lim had to help him wear his skates. Double Zzzzzz... I stand one side and take pictures only. Hoho. 
There were 3 heats and Zaky was in heats 2.

The competition format was in the form of a "jamming" session for a total duration of 2mins x no. of participants in each heat. They take turns to show off their stuff and each was allowed to do about 3 tricks per run. Then repeat until the time is up. 

If his competitors were good during the warmup, they were suddenly superb during the actual heats! Our jaw dropped. The kids were like grinding on all ledges, changing grind positions, 360, 520 and one of them did a back flip! How can?!!?

When it was Zaky's turn to warm up for his heats, he suddenly started missing all his grinds. He was obviously very anxious. There were 5 (or 4?) in his heats, with 2 very small girls who probably started aggro skate not long ago and were happy doing simple stuff. That was very helpful in slowly down the tempo of the heats and lessen his pressure. Heats 1 was so aggressive with the skaters like flying everywhere. Even my blood pressure was pumped up a notch just by watching them. 

Zaky did well in his 1st 2 runs and got his grinds. Nice! We had been asking him if he thought of what he had wanted to showcase before the heats and he was like "I think...". When the heats started, he just had to think on the spot, and think very quickly. As the mins progressed, exhaustion sunk in. He didn't land his 360 after 2 tries but got his front side grind at his 3rd attempt and the crowd cheering for him when he did it. Such motivating spectators. 

By the end of it, he was so exhausted and the midday scorching sun didn't help. If he made it into the finals, he would need to be back for it later in the day. I wasn't so confident of him making into the finals. I coaxed him home for a nice shower and Caoch agreed that he would message us if he made it. 

Not only did Zaky have his cool shower, he got to lie in bed and aircon too. Then at 3ish, Coach whatsapped that Zaky got into the Junior Finals! He made it to the Top 10. Before long, we repacked and made our way back to the skatepark and got to watch the Masters (aka old but still good) and the Open (aka very good and very young). I didn't realise that the aggro skate community is so big in Singapore. 

The Junior Finals was to commence after the Open Qualifying. There was again another long wait after the Open Qualifying. I think they were tabulating the results for the Qualifying rounds and the referees were taking a break or something. Just when they announced for the Juniors to gather, it started to drizzle AGAIN! 

Daddy Lim had to leave for a dinner appointment. I stayed on with Zaky. The drizzle turned to downpour and the crowd started chanting "Plaza", which is the sheltered part of the skatepark. The venue was indeed changed to the Plaza for the Finals. The skaters started warming up and Zaky started planning his run. 

The rain was relentless and the wind was howling. The rain wet one side of the Plaza, making 1/3 of the Plaza unskateable. The host started gathering the finalists, trying to decide through voting if the Finals should continue or move to Sunday. 

It was a 50/50, some of the foreign skaters were flying out and others probably had plans/ work. 

As they were deciding, the wind changed direction and now the other 1/3 of the Plaza was wet. Zzzzzz. I don't see how ant of the skaters can skate safely. 

It was eventually decided by the host that the Finals would be canceled and results would be based on the heats. Zaky was nowhere in the tops and in fact placed 9th. He didn't mind. It had been a long and tiring day. 

We waited until the downpour reduced to a drizzle and walked home. Nana was waiting for us to do dinner. She said that Zaky had successfully competed in his 1st aggro competition and that called for a celebration and good food. Lol. 

It all ended well. 

Zaky was happy with his performance and the competition exposure. He is so motivated and wanted to skate again the next day. He also recognised that it is the grinding that gets the top scores and is now committed to train his grinds. The skaterchloe didn't make it into the top 10 with her "almost got it" 520 as she didn't do many grinds. They were saying that she is probably not familiar with the JLG skatepark. 

I was also told that majority of the Juniors (like 10 out of the 14) are foreigners. Zaky thinks that he was the only SGP who made it into the finals. Obviously Singapore lacks aggro skating young blood. The weather is too hot, aggro skating is too dangerous and studies are too important for young skaters to hone the skill. 

It is OK. I hope the kids (and Daddy Lim) continue to enjoy the game and please, do not break any more bones. Zzzzz.  

Mummy Lim 

Monday, June 26, 2023

Kids' Day Out

I shared a life long friendship with the SHSS ladies. I remembered the countless times where we wondered and discussed if our kids would become pals like us. Many of them knew each other literally from birth. AN, C, Nana and Boo are about the same age and bonded naturally. ER, V, T and Zaky are the same age and it is even easier for the boys to build relationship over gaming. 

Thankfully, their friendship blossoms. As they grow, they may have decreased the frequency of joining the aunties' monthly gatherings but increased the times that they met up on their own. 

Last Friday, they had planned and successfully executed the outing to the USS. It was a huge group - AN, ER, V, S, C, T and Zaky. Nana couldn't join bcos she is a paika. Boo opted to meet Nana for lunch and movie instead. They all met for dinner at Vivo in the evening. 





Boo's family just returned from BKK too. She gifted a twinning oversized T to Nana. 

Nana did likewise when she was in BKK and bought Boo also a twinning oversized T and keychair. New trend ah. 

The kids had fun. They are planning to meet again during Youth Day. Keep it up!

Mummy Lim

Sunday, June 25, 2023

Post Bangkok with Kids

Like I mentioned, I was too tired and opted to wfh, allowing me to steal 1 more hour of sleep. Daddy Lim only had 3ish hours of sleep and had to go to work. I barely opened my eyes and saw him all dressed and ready. The next moment, it was 8am on my phone. Hoho. 

It was pay back time, trying to clear the mounted emails and work. I also got to spend time with the kids at home and Nana had the honor to "unbox" the cup and plates. 
The colours didn't turn out as vibrant as I had hoped. 



Nana's name was also spelled wrongly. Lol. 

Mochi also got his gifts. He didn't quite like them though. They immobilised him, thus we could take pictures. Lol. 




Did we enjoy the Bangkok holidays? Absolutely! We shopped and bought a lot. We also eat alot. We went with 16kg and came back with 24kg of luggage. Everyone also put on weight. Lol. The remaining week was diet week. Pay back time in another form. 

We enjoyed the family time and bonding. The kids did alot more shopping than expected, something that we now get to witness as part of their growing milestone. 

The holiday has re-ignited our wanderlust. We are now discussing the September school holiday destination and very much hoping that Nana will be offcast. So exciting. 

Mummy Lim